Disability and identity and The Daily Telegraph

Well, that last paragraph is a pile of bullsht.

People don’t get well because they’ve got no other option. They die.

If the writer thinks that we are going to shake people out of whatever it is the writer thinks they need shaking out of, there has to be a better way than the withdrawal of support which every single genuine person suffering a long-term issue deserves, and often needs.

It has only just been recognised by the NHS that the previously popular advice for sufferers of ME/CFS that improvement can be sought through exercise and fresh air, et cetera, is not only untrue for a large cohort of sufferers, but – for some – could be actively catastrophic.

Not only that, but especially post Covid , that it may be a neurological or autoimmune condition , especially given post Covid infection uptick in conditions such as MS, and Parkinson’s.

It is well written. But the erudition of its author does not provide adequate cover for the fact that author is relying on many hackneyed old tropes, and a few new ones – especially regarding young women – for good measure.

And that is deliberate. The author knows damn well that it is.

Finally, the swelling of numbers amongst the disabled is not unattached from the rise in the pension age to 67.

This was inevitable. This was predicted.

If it is hard for somebody completely able-bodied to gain employment after the age of 55, imagine how much harder it is for someone whose body is simply responding to age, with even minor disabilities preventing them finding work?

It is already difficult enough for people who have spent their lifelong employment activity in physical occupations, without asking them to retrain in jobs where employers only wish to recruit much younger people, often preferring graduates, even for entry-level jobs.

So on top of physical disability – which might, like I said, be minor – we are now loading onto a whole generation of people a sense of hopelessness and economic anxiety.

No wonder people are suffering mental health disabilities also at an alarming rate.

I’m not going to pick it apart anymore. It is a well written, seemingly sympathetic, seemingly well researched, hatchet job.

It is rage bait with extra syllables.

***** Nota bene.. I am not saying there isn’t a cohort of people who have made having issues an identity.

But it is very difficult to discern whether or not this is purely down to choosing an identity, or– by gathering together with people similar in age and with similar, GENUINE, issues- young people are simply doing what young people have always done, creating comfort in the forming of little tribes.

Nevertheless, I stand with my analysis, that this is deliberately written to steer the reader towards an ever growing populist conclusion, that disability has been chosen as an identity.

Rather than a life changing, and sometimes life limiting, reality.

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From the Telegraph

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#sickinfluencers 

“This is a disaster for disabled people. 

‘Perhaps you’ve seen it on a news segment on television about a transgender rights march, where every other attendee appears to be supported by a walking stick. Or perhaps you’ve heard about it in your family WhatsApp group, when your sister tells you about your seemingly healthy niece’s new condition. If you still haven’t noticed it, your daughter surely can’t have escaped the bravely smiling young women on Instagram, their profiles decked out in acronyms.

POTS. ME. CF. ADHD. MDD. GAD. PMDD. EDS. FND. For a steadily growing group of British young women, these acronyms – and the conditions they represent – are fundamental to their lives. The country is sicker than it’s ever been before, and it’s not afraid of shouting about it. Disability is changing. To many, it is no longer an adversity to overcome, but a social identity akin to one’s sexuality, gender, or race; an immutable reality to be celebrated by the subject and accommodated by the rest of us.

One in four British people is now disabled, according to the Department for Work and Pensions’ Family Resources Survey. To put this figure in context, this is a higher rate of disability than witnessed in the immediate aftermath of the Second World War. The growth in those identifying as disabled does not reflect a sudden, shocking increase in the number of paraplegics. The twin driving factors are, instead: mental health disorders and chronic conditions. They can be hard to “prove” and harder to effectively treat, and are more likely to be experienced by young women.

A cohort of young people – somewhat cruelly dubbed “sickfluencers” – want to tell you about their conditions and convince you they are real. Like the rest of my generation, they broadcast their struggles to an online community of like-minded individuals. But, were they not decked out in the accessories of their disease, it would be impossible to perceive the conditions they consider to be so central to their interaction with the world.

‘Hi, life update: I have a chronic illness!’

Take Pots, postural orthostatic tachycardia syndrome, a diagnosis that has exploded in recent years. Type the acronym into Instagram and you’ll be bombarded with artfully curated pastel info-graphics (“Seven symptoms I didn’t realise were Pots”), beautiful women with slicked-back hair sharing their Pots journey (“hi life update: I have a chronic illness!”), pink wheelchairs and walking sticks, compression socks embroidered with flowers and bold messages against medical misogyny (“Doctors were wrong about endometriosis. They’re wrong about Pots”).

Many of those who have given themselves a diagnosis of Pots have been met with scepticism when they’ve subsequently discussed their symptoms – and preferred label – with medics. The charity Pots UK warns those who think they might have the condition that “many healthcare professionals do not know that Pots exists and so may not think of the diagnosis” and advises: “If you think you may have this condition, it may help to take a printout of information from this website to your appointment”.

The fear of not being taken seriously by doctors has led people with Pots, who almost always happen to be women (a US study found that 85 per cent of Pots patients were female), to seek validation from their online community. One woman started sharing her story on Instagram partly for this reason, saying that “every comment or DM [direct message] I get about how I helped someone get diagnosed, feel less alone, or learn more about their illness makes it all worth it”.

This community provides a vital function to those who believe medical practitioners are failing to understand their complex conditions. On another Instagram account, a user wrote: “As a young woman, I sometimes felt I had to prove I knew my own body. Eventually, I felt as if the only people I could completely trust were myself and other women online who were experiencing the same things.”. Poor experiences with doctors meant she developed “health anxiety and OCD”.

For the majority of chronic-illness content creators, their accounts appear designed to act as mutual-aid networks. But not everyone is so selfless. I have seen dozens of accounts with links to healthcare products – compression socks, dubious supplements – on which the Instagrammer makes a commission for each sale. Some adverts are undisclosed. Other users advertise themselves as doctors, and sell boutique “diagnosis services” over the internet – despite not having the correct medical qualifications to do so. One popular “doctor” targeting Pots sufferers turned out to be, in reality, a “trained naturopath and yoga teacher”. Turning away from the medical establishment opens a door to all forms of modern-day quackery.

Dr Suzanne O’Sullivan, a neurologist and author of The Age of Diagnosis, says Pots was first named as a condition in 1993 to help explain why some fainting episodes in young people persisted into later life. The condition manifests through palpitations, dizziness, and a rapid increase in heart rate upon standing (with the arbitrary medical benchmark for diagnosis placed at 30 beats-per-minute faster compared to sitting). In the UK, 130,000 people are believed to be affected, with this number likely to be an underestimate given that it was calculated before the pandemic.

There is no doubt that many of those diagnosed with Pots have genuine illnesses that have a significant effect on their lives. Ella Mills, the 35-year-old founder of the food and wellness company Deliciously Ella, has suffered debilitating symptoms such as chronic fatigue, digestive problems and pain “everywhere” from the age of 21.

This week, Dr Lesley Kavi, a former GP and chair of Pots UK, said that cases have significantly increased since the pandemic, but “half of patients are told that their symptoms are all in their head”. She added: “When they describe so many symptoms at one time, and the doctors don’t think to test for Pots, they assume the problem is psychological.”

But, says O’Sullivan, there is no “demonstrable pathology or proof of a nervous system disorder. There is no pathology to prove a diagnosis”. It’s hardly surprising, then, that the rising number of women identifying as having Pots – with its relatable list of symptoms – is a prime example of what some doctors worry is an epidemic of overdiagnosis.

Dr Katie Musgrave, a general practitioner, has seen this phenomenon first-hand. She describes a “hyper-awareness of physical symptoms like fatigue and a racing heart” from patients who visit her seeking an explanation for their pain, with an expectation that there will be a single, incontrovertible diagnosis. Often though, she says, it is more likely that factors such as “a lack of sleep and exercise and a poor diet” are causing the patient’s symptoms, and these can be resolved with minimal medical intervention.

Some women, however, do not accept such a verdict. Invariably, these individuals have already decided they have a certain condition before they see a doctor, and if the GP refuses to validate their beliefs, they “seek out a private specialist and get a diagnosis of an unusual condition,” says Musgrave.

But, says O’Sullivan, there is no “demonstrable pathology or proof of a nervous system disorder. There is no pathology to prove a diagnosis”. It’s hardly surprising, then, that the rising number of women identifying as having Pots – with its relatable list of symptoms – is a prime example of what some doctors worry is an epidemic of overdiagnosis.

Dr Katie Musgrave, a general practitioner, has seen this phenomenon first-hand. She describes a “hyper-awareness of physical symptoms like fatigue and a racing heart” from patients who visit her seeking an explanation for their pain, with an expectation that there will be a single, incontrovertible diagnosis. Often though, she says, it is more likely that factors such as “a lack of sleep and exercise and a poor diet” are causing the patient’s symptoms, and these can be resolved with minimal medical intervention.

Some women, however, do not accept such a verdict. Invariably, these individuals have already decided they have a certain condition before they see a doctor, and if the GP refuses to validate their beliefs, they “seek out a private specialist and get a diagnosis of an unusual condition,” says Musgrave.

Young women are also more likely to get caught up in “social contagion” – the spontaneous spread of behaviours or emotions previously observed by sociologists in “outbreaks” of bulimia, self-harm and transgender ideology. What may have otherwise been transitory feelings are seized upon and obsessed over until they form a central pillar of a person’s identity. A chronic-illness influencer won’t want to get “better” any more than a female-bodied transgender person would want to re-identify with their sex.

Are the young women sporting crutches and ever-expanding lists of chronic ailments just malingering? As children, most of us pretended at some point to be unwell to get out of a boring family engagement or a miserable day at school. If we put on a decent enough performance (a husky voice, watering eyes, slow movements) we got what we wanted.

When my mother was a girl, she feigned unbearable abdominal pain to dodge a minorly unpleasant task. She kept the act up for so long that when a doctor diagnosed her with appendicitis, she failed to break character – and even when she was prepared for surgery – she couldn’t bring herself to confess. And so, whenever I’d swear blindly I was too unwell to go into class on a Monday morning, she’d remind me of the small scar beneath her stomach.

But this explanation fails to take account of the process whereby “pretending” to be unwell can actually make you feel sick. A young woman who is convinced there is something wrong with her, whether through online self-diagnosis or a rushed GP’s five-minute validation, has changed her perception of her body. Her concerns are reified, altering her entire experience through a mechanism Suzanne O’Sullivan calls the nocebo effect, a “potent generator of physical symptoms through the power of belief”.

Whether the young patient was ever actually sick is beside the point: believe it enough, and you can make your secret fear or hope real. It is too simple to accuse the hundreds of thousands of young women identifying as unwell of having simply made up their symptoms for personal gain. That their pain is real – and now deeply integral to their identity – is perhaps a more frightening reality.

There is another dark side to the phenomenon. For all the talk of raising awareness of disability and acceptance of “different experiences of pain”, the new disability activists have shown themselves to be incredibly unsympathetic towards other disabled people who fail to suit their political narratives. Take Tourette’s. TikTok and Instagram are filled with videos of young women showing off their “tics” (uncontrollable verbal or physical outbursts characteristic of the disease). Occasionally, this behaviour can appear remarkably performative. The global pop mega-star Billie Eilish showed her “tics” in a single interview four years ago, yet there has been little sign of them in her hundreds of live appearances since then.

And yet, when John Davidson, a Tourette’s sufferer whose life inspired the film I Swear, shouted a racial slur at a black actor at the Baftas earlier this year – an uncontrollable tic – hundreds of self-diagnosed “Tourette’s warriors” created content insisting Davidson was a racist, because they would never tic in such an unseemly manner. Given that Tourette’s, by definition, often compels people to behave inappropriately in public, it is remarkable how many of its new young sufferers seem to be attuned to social conventions.

Bad luck?

If de-stigmatisation is the only polite explanation for the exponential increase in certain chronic conditions, why is this not true across the board? Half a century ago, around one in 2,000 children was diagnosed with autism. In 2022, a study in the US found that one in 31 eight-year-olds had been diagnosed with autism. In the UK, one in 57 children were on the autism spectrum according to research published by Cambridge University a year earlier.

The increase has come from “high-functioning” (once known as “Asperger’s”) autism patients. What your grandparents considered to be signs of eccentricity, such as an obsessive fixation on a particular hobby or difficulty maintaining eye contact with strangers, is now a case for a formal diagnosis.

The profile of what the medical establishment considers to be a typical autistic person has changed, from young males displaying obvious and debilitating symptoms from early childhood to adults and increasingly females. Much of the attention is now focused on those at the mild end of the spectrum, a shift that Prof Dame Uta Frith, a pioneer of treatment for the condition, describes as making a diagnostic label “completely meaningless”

Mild sufferers of chronic disease rarely experience just one. I was surprised to find during my research into the #Pots community that many individuals also experienced autism, Tourette’s, Long Covid, chronic Lyme and so on. It would require incredibly bad luck indeed for so many of these women to be afflicted by so many completely different illnesses with totally different medical causes. But luck seems to have nothing to do with it. There is a wealth of medical evidence that disorders with no proven pathology overlap. In many of these cases, if the cause is medical, it is strictly psychosomatic. And if it is not medical, it is likely to be based on identity: the desire to increase one’s status through suffering, or to enjoy a larger community of supporters.

Perhaps the young influencers producing comedic videos about having a “touch of the ’tism” reflect our new understanding of the condition as much more common than we thought, as argued by Prof Simon Baron-Cohen, one of the world’s leading experts on autism, or just playing around with their identity as teenage girls are wont to do. But how does the family of a non-verbal autistic child, who must be constantly monitored lest they begin banging their head against any available hard surface, respond to the definition of autism now apparently applying to a young woman who seems to excel at social interactions but feels fatigued after spending too much time around her friends?

How do they feel when their child must wait for months to see a specialist doctor thanks to a waiting list now clogged with people suffering from mild social anxiety? What can they do when activists attack charitable bodies like Autism Speaks for failing to keep up with their self-conception of autism as a gift rather than a disease, when their child will never be able to live an independent life?

The cost to the economy

The truth is that it is not harmless to allow a generation of girls to convince themselves they are sick without good reason. Nearly one in 10 people of working age is now claiming a sickness or disability benefit, and the number of children receiving disability benefits has doubled in the past decade. All of the major political parties have acknowledged that disability-related welfare costs are unsustainable, with Reform vowing to compel a quarter of a million people back into work, saving taxpayers up to £50bn, if it forms the next government. Overdiagnosis of minor issues that 20 years ago would have resolved on their own can be ruinously costly.

And it’s not just immediate welfare costs that are placing a strain on public finances. The number of school children receiving SEN (Special Educational Needs) support has soared since the pandemic, rising from one million in 2018-19 to 1.3 million in 2025-26, straining school budgets to the limit. Many of these interventions – for example, extra time in exams and private tuition – have shown limited returns for “mild” sufferers of chronic diseases like autism and ADHD.

As is also the case with dogmatic aspects of transgender ideology, sickness-as-identity politics is especially dangerous for children. We are creating a cohort of young people that is totally dependent either on doctors or activists for emotional support, and broader society for economic support. Joe Shalam, a former special adviser at the Department for Work and Pensions who is now policy director at the Centre for Policy Studies think tank, says that the “tragedy is that our welfare system can then reinforce that identity [leading to] long-term economic inactivity [and] wasting enormous potential”.

If there is a sickness identity, there needs to be a recovery identity – not just one that exists to sell people more products. A chronically “sick” person does what a chronically sick person is supposed to do: they withdraw from regular life, struggle with previously simple tasks, receive support and condolences, and rarely, if ever, get better.’”

Decriminalising abortion.

Oh god twitter feminists don’t you realise all your blather about baybeees confers – like it or not – personhood on pregnancies you are not carrying.

Only a pregnant woman can decide if her foetus is “a baby”

Think about it, if a foetus is only a person if it’s normal and healthy, then what are you saying?
And if a foetus is always a baybeee – thus legally a person – then what are the implications for choice, what are the implications for women carrying the desperately unwell and doomed?

A pregnant woman is the only person who can confer personhood. She does not – beyond the control of her own body and pregnancy- do this with legal standing.

Whilst she cannot be forced to carry or abort against her will, the law is clear.
A foetus becomes a baby – a person- upon parturition. Not before.

This has worked well in the U.K. , and the desperate act of self induced abortion we have just seen prosecuted did NOT involve a more than one person, legally or in any other way.
She did not abort a “baybee” no matter how we personally feel about it.
And I am speaking about the subject as one who has been pregnant and birthed, and who has had ethical constraints.

Women who’ve been prosecuted under the OAPA/1861[*which, as far as I’m aware, has not been repealed, thus certain provisions such as against poisoning will likely stand] as inflictors, not as victims.
Just the same way as attempted suicides were prosecuted as inflictors (as in self murder).

In both cases, their victims deserve mercy. If she hand forced RU486 down another’s throat, stealthed it or acted as a back street butcher, that is one thing.
Just as going up to a third party and stabbing them.

But when victim and perp are the same person, we have mercy for **suicide attempts, but not this.

But – as with suicide- no material third person acted here.

Inflicting unsupervised self abortion in such a dangerous manner is akin to attempted suicide, and we can create merciful laws which not only recognise this, but retain the parts of OAPA/1861, which protect women and their foeti against the third party.

If this is impossible, then how did we manage to separate suicide from murder, without decriminalising murder?

And if it is impossible because baby – AKA person – is involved, then you either dehumanise another’s foetus on her behalf – a dangerous thing – or you confer personhood on all foeti, regardless of the choices of ALL pregnant women.

Which is why we do not have foetal personhood in U.K. law. It cannot be arbitrarily granted in law, it has to apply to all. Thus it cannot apply to any.
And forced abortion – whether inflicted by poison, bodily harm, or even consentingly administered by any unqualified third party – will remain illegal regardless. It does not require foetal personhood.

There was no third party here. Just as with **suicide .

What quality has mercy?

  • Unconsented medical procedures are illegal,people. This will be no different.
  • * And I mean suicide, not “assisted dying” which is an oxymoron within the actual definition of suicide.

Voluntary Euthanasia is NOT legally akin to abortion, and consent should NEVER nullify Jurisprudenctial oversight.

I keep seeing voluntary euthanasia likened to abortion, that if one should remain unlawful due to coercion, so should the other, as they both “kill a person”

Bear in mind this. Foetal personhood did not exist in U.K. law before the 1967 Act. And still does not.

And if a woman is coerced – or obtains a termination outside of the auspices of the act – she remains alive to either seek, or face, justice.
Some of the punitive tariffs being equal those applied to other similar crimes.
Because abortion – even though no person in law dies- remains illegal outside the aforementioned auspices.

Whereas self suicide is not illegal , but may be subject to coroner referral to criminal investigation, if such circumstances such as coercion or abetting are suspected.

One clause in the proposed act, lays out that a voluntary euthanising will not be subject to coroner oversight, thus elevating it above self suicide, factors such as coercion not only brushed aside, but effectively decriminalised.

How can we have laws against coercion re abortion and self suicide, but not voluntary euthanasia- AKA “assisted suicide”?

What does this mean re the implications as regards unlawful abortions – such as ones induced by stealth poisoning- as per the Offences Against The Person Act, 1861?

I seriously do not know.
But it’s a specious and dangerous analogy, to compare a possible crime where there’s a living victim – with one where there cannot possibly be the same, in order to erase the latter as a potential crime, or to remove women’s consent.

But it is clear that it looks as though Leadbeater copypasted her act from Dr Steel’s 1967 Act, without any regard to the fundamental differences between an act which preserves a person to seek/face justice -or go on to have wanted pregnancy, or not- and one which purely seeks to codify an absolute finality as above jurisprudence(see pic) once consent is signed.
Especially when this does NOT apply to any other procedure, including abortion, even when consent is obtained.

And I don’t think it can end well. Consent should NEVER nullify jurisprudence.

Even as a layperson re the law, this proposal terrifies me.

On Princess Catherine, prurient entitlement and its resulting incandescent rage when thwarted.

I don’t understand people, and the questions they feel entitled to ask.

I’m still reeling from the incandescent rage I myself was once subjected to , for refusing to disclose details of someone’s intimate medical care, which an interlocutor felt entitled to ask, without a hint of ikk.

Even though I explained that – not just was refusal a routine matter of privacy and dignity – it was also that a layman might not fully understand it, and, using google, may conjecture up all sorts of lurid imaginings, and then catastrophise, my explanation was labelled a “tirade”.

Even though I assured this person that I would daily update them on progress, and any major developments.

This does not include information on whether the subject was aided in voiding, or what they’ve otherwise output,or how.
Yes, that particularly unsavoury information was also sought.

If anyone reading this feels I was being unreasonable – and while I sure hope their metrics of patient confidentiality, dignity, and advocacy, never become the norm – may I assume they’ll never require someone to protect them from unsavoury curiosity, or uphold their dignity and privacy?

Moreover, will they sign a release form, to that end?

No, I expect not. Nor should they feel compelled to. It is another strata of the concept of consent. I cannot assume anyone’s, or give theirs away.

But to this day, my very banal adherence to fuck1ng BASIC ethics, has resulted in a spiteful and ongoing silence from my interlocutor.

Medical confidentiality regulation are not there to thwart the righteous, nor is consent.
Couching morbid curiosity in the sanitising language of “tHe PUblIck InTERest”- when such matters are down purely to being interested – rather than an issue which may affect societal cohesion, or national and international security, is disingenuous.

If someone of admittedly high privilege is not entitled to medical privacy, then that has implications for us all.

*not the same as silly memes. Don’t get excited now.

On Princess Catherine, prurient entitlement and its resulting incandescent rage when thwarted.

I don’t understand people, and the questions they feel entitled to ask.

I’m still reeling from the incandescent rage I myself was once subjected to , for refusing to disclose details of someone’s intimate medical care, which an interlocutor felt entitled to ask, without a hint of ikk.

Even though I explained that – not just was refusal a routine matter of privacy and dignity – it was also that a layman might not fully understand it, and, using google, may conjecture up all sorts of lurid imaginings, and then catastrophise, my explanation was labelled a “tirade”.

Even though I assured this person that I would daily update them on progress, and any major developments.

This does not include information on whether the subject was aided in voiding, or what they’ve otherwise output,or how.
Yes, that particularly unsavoury information was also sought.

If anyone reading this feels I was being unreasonable – and while I sure hope their metrics of patient confidentiality, dignity, and advocacy, never become the norm – may I assume they’ll never require someone to protect them from unsavoury curiosity, or uphold their dignity and privacy?

Moreover, will they sign a release form, to that end?

No, I expect not. Nor should they feel compelled to. It is another strata of the concept of consent. I cannot assume anyone’s, or give theirs away.

But to this day, my very banal adherence to fuck1ng BASIC ethics, has resulted in a spiteful and ongoing silence from my interlocutor.

Medical confidentiality regulation are not there to thwart the righteous, nor is consent.
Couching morbid curiosity in the sanitising language of “tHe PUblIck InTERest”- when such matters are down purely to being interested – rather than an issue which may affect societal cohesion, or national and international security, is disingenuous.

If someone of admittedly high privilege is not entitled to medical privacy, then that has implications for us all.

*not the same as silly memes. Don’t get excited now.

Womb transplants, and why we must reject the emotive.

So the “iTS tHe SCieNCe” GC milieu are all hair on fire about uterus transplants.

While it’s legitimate to hold it’s an abomination – we may or may not agree – it is not to assert that anti rejection drugs must harm a foetus, or there’s no long term knowledge of the effects of such.

The latter is simply erroneous, as there’s adults out there walking amongst us – who’s mothers had the likes of kidney transplants, for instance – and it’s easily googled.

Uterus transplants are incredibly rare, I can think of only two off bat, both from a donor closely related to the recipient.
And they are expensive – far more so than IVF per Tx – and do not save lives.

So – apart from ethical issues – I cannot see them being provided in the NHS, as NICE would not approve due to the huge disparity between cost and benefit.

And since organ donation – even in the private sector in the U.K. – is heavily regulated, I do not see people being able to buy a uterus in some market type deal, it is illegal.
Much less so any male.

Not for a long while, so we have years to oppose such.

But as with objections as regards pharmaceutically induced mle galactorrhea, we must refrain – google first – and approach the subject from an accurate and scientifically robust stand point, and refrain from religious adjacent sounding language.

The latter can never lend credibility, any more than flinging words round such as “pus” or telling teens their father is a “peedoh” and “prevert”.

*I mean as a feminist I have issues with the whole fertility industry. Apart from the fact it’s medically a high risk set of procedures – such as ovarian overstimulation- it often fails, at great financial and emotional cost. And egg donors have suffered embolisms and died.
We cannot donate blood for coin, but women’s reproductive abilities have a price?

Such an industry not only breaks hearts and kills, but reinforces the paradigm of full womanhood being an absolute inseparable from motherhood.
I know of women put through great pain because of that, esp after miscarriage or failed IVF. It’s rancid and no feminist should support that, esp if we reject language such as “uterus havers” “birthing people” or (UGH) “breeders”.
If we reject that language, we must also reject any paradigm which places the value of womanhood into similar reductive tropes.

And don’t start me on surrogacy. From babies in the rubble of UKraine and Nepal – their “rescuers” leaving the mothers to rot in that rubble – to the babies rejected due to sex or disability, I despise the whole gosh darn shebang. It’s people trafficking. Ends/.

And Just Like That, middle aged women are creepy men. Or how to tell a script was written by a man.

You know what’s really annoyed me about the scene in And Just Like that, whereby middle aged women ogle a teen boy in a high school?

It’s not that that has literally never happened. It literally hasn’t .
Anymore than there’s women with restraining orders keeping them away from staring at school kids/boys.

The tsunami of sexulised acting out toward even female staff – in schools – is not being enacted by mothers and daughters. In corridors. As if nothing is going on.

It’s not that there aren’t women who’ve been involved in paedophilia. There have been. It’s very rare and always seems to be at the behest of a man they’re trying to keep, but it has happened.

It’s that those women are portrayed as no better than the types who do stare at school kids. The whole thing is written to present the female gaze as no less predatory and overt than the male.

I mean it can be. At The Chippendale’s etc. but those are adult men.
And no, I’m not going into the structural differentials between them, male strippers at a hen do, and lap dancing.
Suffice to say one wonders how many male strippers have found themselves “unable to escape” due to the knowledge that if they try, they will suffer a maim?

What’s flipped my switch is that it was written by a man, projecting onto women, how men behave – and do so without an iota of self awareness – and people are capering about like gibbons as if women really are ogling teenage schoolboys, up and down schools everywhere.

As if a man writing essentially male pattern characters/reality.
“Ugh women are just as bad look look”

Yes sure there’s women who abuse positions of power and trust, and – to their victims – they’re just as bad.
But where’s the female PC Couzens? Where’s the female Yorkshire Ripper?
Where are the German industrial units full of cubicles containing trafficked Eastern European men, barely making rent?
Where’s the lesbians/bi womwn killing their female partners at the rate of two a week?

Of course the scene is repulsive but it’s not got ANY foundation in reality, and I don’t know any women who’ve laughed at it.
The fact we are not laughing should be enough, but we have to go about performing revulsion as if such a thing was a thing, in case anyone thinks our stony silence equates to the same accepting shrug at men “being men”- at things which ARE things – innit?

Meanwhile, everyone still be shrugging at Game Of Thrones, thereby unwittingly proving that male violence remains banal.

While women have to perform gratuitous nausea at something we’d never do, instead of being allowed – AGAIN – to express nausea at the lie, and to turn our furious faces upon patriarchy and demand he cleans his own house, prince of lies and filth he is.

Misogynist myths and the phenomena of “gender critical” feminists uttering the same as the pro-birth right. What’s going on?

I can’t help but wonder about the timing of so called feminists positing that abortion is harmful to women, using hyperbolic rhetoric such as “abortion is a violence, a desperate form of violence inflicted by a woman , first of all, herself”. See pic.

And including comments such as “women do not have choices when they cannot choose to be penetrated”

First off, the former is hyperbolic. While some women may feel violested by the need for an abortion, esp one they did not want or anticipate wanting, such language plays into not the narrative that mn are ultimately responsible, but that it is a female crime(and must be stopped).

And what of women who choose to be penetrated? Whilst that full sentence implies penetration as to mean unplanned pregnancy, words have meanings.
Penetration is just that, nothing else, nothing more.

Or is a rape which does not result in a pregnancy not a penetration?
Is being heterosexual “choosing” to be penetrated [impregnated, by implied meaning] by mn and – if so – are het women complicit in this “violence”, having made themselves pregnant?
And – the latter being the case – does this imply that het women know what they need to do, to avoid that violence?

I wish I hadn’t seen – after Roe Versus Wade was struck – rhetoric and posts which suggested exactly that. That all women needed to do was keep their knees together.

From feminists. Sounding exactly like Amy Coney Barrett and her ilk. Feminists.
But I did and I am and I will no doubt see more, on social media and in politics.

Back to violence. I can see there may be an intention behind the assertion, to imply that mn inflict this.
But that’s not what’s exactly said, and words have meaning.

The assertion that “liberal” feminists play down this “violence” , “treat it lightly” order that mn “can continue to demand their prerogative “

Again blames women. YES it does.

No feminist on the planet takes abortion as anything less than a DEADLY serious matter.
This assertion that some feminists gad about treating abortion as some inconsequential matter – so they can carry on enabling mn to exact their droit de seigneur[the traitors] – is not very far removed from the RW trope that women who support easily accessible contraception and abortion , are simply promiscuous, vacuous, “Sluts”. Collaboratrises, no less.

No feminist I know plays down the subject to benefit mn.

I will not call abortion a crime against women- rather than address what crimes may necessitate it’s need.
I will not accuse women of self inflicted violence. I will not insinuate het women as harlots who need just cross their legs , lest they be simply getting what they asked for.
That they’re enabling mn, thus exonerating the mn in question.

I don’t want to sound EXACTLY like ACB and her ilk, when women are STILL fighting for repro autonomy all over the globe, and when women are STILL dying in their millions worldwide, for want of access to that.

I am NOT pro choice so mn can get their ends away. You’ve got to be a total fule to imagine they’d stop exacting their aforementioned ‘droit” to penetrate if women – or girl children – couldn’t avoid unwanted birth.
That evidence provided by the occurrence of a pregnancy, or arrival of a baby, would be a deterrent.

I’ve news for you, there’s cemeteries, riverbeds, lake beds, convent gardens, rubbish dumps – and countless more locations – littered with the revenants of women, girls, babies and foetuses.
Giving witness to the fact that mn have never cared whether or not there’s evidence of their crimes.

Kindly stop that misogyny right there.
Especially when women in in a number of industrialised democracies – who assumed repro autonomy was a done deal – are now finding out again what it’s like to be told they have to be on the brink of death, before Drs feel legally safe to evacuate miscarriages.

Can we talk about repro violence without laying it at the feet of feminists, and calling that feminism? Can we not link arms with the right?

As to het women “knowing” “what they need to do”?

You kiss your mother with that mouth?

And I’m not sure what Renata Klein is trying to do when she peddles oft promulgated RW myths as regards mifepristone, or the abortion pill (as RU 486) is colloquially termed

“The magic remedy that we keep hearing about, from the National Women’s Health Network to Elisabet Warren and VP Kamala Harris, is “pill abortion.” Proclaimed to be “safe and effective,” it can be obtained via a telehealth consultation, with pills sent in the mail.
Such messaging is misleading and dangerous. The Supreme Court has removed access to safe abortions, but “pill abortion” exposes women to serious adverse effects that should not be dismissed as individual mishaps. RU486 (Mifeprex) and PG (prostaglandin) abortion often results in incomplete terminations that must be followed up by a vacuum aspiration, or otherwise it can lead to sepsis and the woman’s death.”

Ehttps://4w.pub/pill-abortions/?fbclid=IwAR3I0c-nCGFHR9fkwwmN8O_NMDAt9koMWmerOZXQAozVX_41F4E78HGpqMo .

This medication has been used – and proven safe – for the last 32 years, in the U.K.

But to imagine it’s wholly coincidental to the RW – anti feminist/anti woman – infiltration of so called “gender critical” circles, with their often equally genderist view of “what a woman is” , would be naive at best.

Abotion is not a maim, or the tool of the “het handmaiden”, nor is the het women the source of all her own woes.

But if you’re aligning the actual collaboratoratrises, the women who oppose choice, vaunt traditional families, utter incomprehensible patriarchal myths about what mn will and not do, if they cannot avoid pregnancy in women , because you share one common enemy, you might be.

Another territory astroturfed, chewed up , spat out, by the global mic session that is Kellie Jay – content creator and overall merch pedlar – Keen Minshul

Oh Australia, what has she done to you…

Here’s the Daily Mail – a prominent tabloid voice of the Right in the U.K. – listing the actions which make her look far right. At this point, the damage she is doing can no longer be mitigated or gaslit away.

I know lots of women (and a cohort of men, impressed by “sassy little ladies”) think she’s great, but wake up and smell the coffee. Her constant contraversialism is making the GC movement look awful. 

Her key message may be right – and she couldn’t have done so much good if it wasn’t – or hoodwinked so many.

But the whole far right flirtation has just made her look ridiculous. 

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-11883261/amp/How-transphobe-Kellie-Jay-Keen-aka-Posie-Parker-caused-controversy-Australian-tour.html

So I’ll say it again, nobody sensible holds her responsible for the actions of men. What she IS responsible for – however – is what she says and how she responds.

She will have to repeat – and with sincerity – her visa saving statement about nzis – for as long as she has remained stonily silent on the far right’s glomming over her , before most will see any reason whatsoever to offer the slightest credence to the often vitriolic denials of her followers , as regards her leanings.

And even the mainstream far right, such as Tucker Carlson and crew, don’t associate with nzis.  

My memory goes back to Jellie Kay, manoeuvring and dividing – before banners etc – before the never needed (as a predicted as castration is a medically accurate term, so didn’t donate – phew) “legal fund”. Before all of that.

I will not call her a Nzi apart from that being highly problematic in any event. And I will not use her terminology, such as calling others b1tches, or sad little lesb1an , or paedophile supporters. I will remind you – any of you who call yourselves feminist- that she openly despises feminism, and by extension you.

I will let her label herself.

I just pity the Oz feminists – particularly in Hobart – who are already having to regroup, after her astroturfing modus operandi has once again left a trail of destruction, as it did in Brighton , Edinburgh et al.

About them optics , the optics we are increasingly tarred with? Don’t say we didn’t…

And if you declare that you’d “work with the devil himself”, don’t be surprised when his minions turn up

Even though Depp has won the court of public opinion, #IBelieveHer

Since I’ve spoken – re Depp V Heard – women have come forward, disclosing things they’ve experienced at the hands of violent mn.
Strong, intelligent, women.
Strong intelligent women, reporting they cannot speak out, for fear of disbelieving gossips, whom – during this time – they have come to believe are the majority.

I have no skin in the game, no experience of domestic violence to report.
But I know – to a point I can place bets – that some out there do attribute my stance to being “damaged” “that way”.
Having ishoos.
It’s easier to attribute my motives to trauma and neurosis, than address why a woman wouldn’t join in malicious and prurient gossip.

I have never denied that women can abuse, all I’ve ever pointed out is three crucial things, which are, in no order of importance;

1- Abuse literally means the ab/use of a structural power, be that strength, riches, or rank.
The definition of abuse is that – for ab/use to occur, an im/balance of power must exist.
So mutual abuse cannot scientifically exist – think that’s Newtonian physics but I’ll stand happily corrected. 2- Why men can leave but women can’t. It’s nothing to do with trauma bonding.

2a – The most dangerous time in an abused woman’s life – other than when she is pregnant – is when she is in the process of leaving her tormentor, or after she has left.
This is not an opinion it’s a fact acknowledged by the MOJ, DPP, and countless other orgs.
There are no corresponding figures for men, as female tormentors – as equally egregious as they are – are simply not murdering mn.

2b – contrary to common belief (and taken from a mn’s abuse charity) mn DO report, and as frequently – and at a lower threshold – and nor are they as stigmatised by society.
While all victims often experience a sense of shame, mn aren’t shamed as much as women, because- whan mn experience abuse – it is seen by society as “worse”.
We have seen this also played out – in the court of public opinion – through the lens of Depp V Heard.

3 – That – so soon after #meetoo – public opinion has reverted to the tropes so often attempted by unethical defence lawyers, in rape trials (in no order of frequency)
[ I address this in brackets where relevant re this case]

3a – she isn’t acting how we believe a victim should
[newflash, special victims orgs will tell you nope]

3b – she goaded him
[dont fight with mn,ladies]

3c – she’s after his money
[divorce settlement rather refutes that]

3d – she’s mentle
[victims trend to come across as traumatised, like d*h]

3e – she’s mutually abusive
[scientifically impossible, see above]

3f – the “woman scorned”
[who’s suing who, five times now]

3g – women who don’t report contemporaneously, must be liars when they eventually do.
[Never mind she did report on one occasion, in order to get a restraining order]
[ See also, “failure to report harms real victims/reporting harms real victims”…..
….we see you, you mixed up kids]

3h – she’s defamed him.
[by not naming him, that was a British tabloid – the Sun- and a High Court Judge found against him]

3i – allegations destroy mn, so hers are, for that malicious intent
[yeh, women can’t resist being absolutely shredded by the mn they’ve destroyed, and their supporters]
[see also Eleanor DeFreitas, and Ched Evan’s – alleged/usual caveats – victim, who now lives under a new identity, protected by the police]

3j – she’s an actress
[so is acting]
[women are, yanno]
[mn aren’t, so – despite being an actor – Depp isn’t acting]

3k – nobody believes mn, so this is important
[everybody believes mn, which is why this is important]

Whoever prevails in court, Depp has won.
If we believe women, this will not alter that.
If we don’t, we now have an excuse, a totem to wheel out.
If we hide behind “real” victims, all we are revealing is that we don’t really believe real victims exist.

While I know mn can be abused, I also know this is being leapt on – as #mentoo, and in the name of equality – to erase the reality of victim and offender, in a colossal act of DARVO.

I believe women, when they come to me and say they’re now scared to speak out.
I believe women when they report. And this doesn’t mean I don’t believe men or can’t have an open mind. Stop that.

BUT

#ibelieveher

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